Waiting to 'Feel Ready' is a One-Way Ticket to Nowhere
Forget the NPC Myths of Happiness and Feeling 100% Ready
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Why Waiting to 'Feel Ready' is a One-Way Ticket to Nowhere
What's the most insidious belief plaguing society today?
It's not what you’re thinking—violence, corruption, or even climate change. NOPE
It is the notion that we should let our FEELINGS govern our actions and that pursuing HAPPINESS is life’s ultimate goal.
Well... It’s not!
In this edition, you’ll learn how to:
Jailbreak from 'Feeling Ready' Prison
It’s all in your head
Where do feelings come from?
Decode What Nature REALLY Wants from You
Spoiler: Nature doesn't give a damn about your happiness. It wants you to:
Stay Alive
Reproduce
Stop Pursuing Happiness
The dead-end road of hedonism
Discover Real Happiness
True contentment demands hard work
Kill your inner demons to chase your deepest dreams
Life’s a Journey, not a Destination
Happiness isn’t an event; it’s an ongoing process
Life’s an infinite game—live to play another day!
Ready to challenge NPC wisdom and grab the reigns of your own life? Let's ride!
Jailbreak from 'Feeling Ready' Prison
I remember my younger, more self-conscious self.
He was a good kid. But he was always worried about what others would think.
He was afraid to speak his mind, convinced that people were scrutinizing his every move, just waiting for him to slip up.
Spoiler Alert: They weren't.
It was all in my head. Most people were too wrapped up in their own lives to notice me. And even if they did, so what?
You've probably felt the same way at some point. Think about something that used to terrify you but now feels completely natural. What changed?
Wouldn't you love to go back and seize those missed opportunities?
Here's the kicker: Today's ‘You’ is Tomorrow's 'Past You.'
Don't let Future You regret chances he didn’t take.
Our feelings are all in our heads, driven by ancient survival mechanisms.
Despite our lofty self-image as Homo sapiens sapiens, we're still biological machines at our core.
Our neurochemistry isn't that different from a lizard's.
What Nature REALLY Wants from You
So, what's driving that "lizard brain" of yours? One word: Survival.
Feel that fight-or-flight reflex when you see someone attractive or get an email from a micromanaging boss? Your body is prepping you for a life-or-death situation.
Extreme? Maybe. But it begs the question:
If these intense feelings are rooted in survival, where do your other feelings come from?
Nature has only two objectives for us:
Objective 1: Staying Alive
Our most primal instinct is self-preservation. It's why we're so captivated by hero stories—those who put others' needs ahead of their own, risking their most precious gift: life.
Objective 2: Reproduce
Nature has made this objective irresistibly compelling. (Fun fact: Did you know a male pig can orgasm for 30 minutes? Crazy, right?)
But it's not just about having kids. We're also wired to nurture them, so they can grow strong and pass our DNA on.
Come to think of it, we are nothing more than flesh drives.
The Harsh Truth
Ready for a reality check? Nature couldn't care less about your happiness. Its only concern is that you live long enough to pass on your genes.
So, why are you still chasing this elusive "happiness"?
Stop Pursuing Happiness
The Never-Ending Cycle
"I will be happy when I finish school."
"I will be happy when I get a job."
"I will be happy when I get married."
Sound familiar? We often postpone our happiness, thinking it's just around the corner. But guess what? That corner never comes.
The Trap of Hedonism
A common mistake is confusing happiness with pleasure. Remember the Greek tales of Dyonisus, the Chad amongst the Greek Gods?
They warned us about the pitfalls of hedonism. Pleasure-seeking for its own sake rarely ends well.
The Dopamine Hit
We're all chasing that next big dopamine hit.
For some, it's sex.
For others, it's drugs
Or food.
Or gambling.
None of these will bring you true fulfillment. I promise.
The Real Question
What will bring you true happiness?
Happiness is a pot of gold under the rainbow. It's not about chasing it; it's about giving yourself permision to experience it.
Discover True Happiness
Where is Happiness, Really?
You've realized that it isn’t at the bottom of another bottle. Where is it hiding, then?
It's in the Work
Believe it or not, the answer is rooted in our biology—but it's not about instant gratification.
Ever noticed how some of the most challenging tasks bring us the most joy?
Whether it's running a marathon or solving a complex coding problem, these tasks aren't easy. But they're rewarding.
The Biology of Joy
Why? Because nature conditioned us to crave these activities.
The endorphins released during a strenuous workout were designed to numb the pain of running from predators.
The flow state achieved while focusing on a complex task was crucial when our ancestors spent hours hunting or crafting tools.
Facing Your Demons
But what about those skeletons in your closet? Those deep-rooted fears that you use as an excuse to remain unhappy. Why let them hold power over you?
To chase your deepest dreams you need to slay your dragons.
The Road Ahead
True happiness isn't just about feeling good; it's trailling the journey towards achieving something meaningful.
Life’s a Journey, Not a Destination
One Step at a Time
The path to happiness is long and winding, but there’s one way forward: one step at a time.
Ever heard the phrase "Trust the Process"? It's not just motivational jibberish.
The Illusion of Instant Success
Don’t let the private jet or the Lambo on the TikTok’s of that overnight success fool you. Even those who find instant fame and fortune have their own challenges and insecurities.
Nothing worth having comes easy.
The Fleeting Nature of Material Happiness
Sure, a brand new Porsche or a trophy wife might bring temporary joy, but what happens when the novelty wears off?
These things become just that—things. And things don't bring lasting happiness.
The Real Source of Joy
True happiness isn't about the big wins; it's about finding joy in the journey. It's about appreciating the process, the ups and downs, and the small wins along the way.
The Infinite Game of Life
In a previous edition, we talked about finite and infinite games.
Life is the ultimate infinite game.
Your goal? To keep playing, learning and enjoying the moment.
One day, it'll be your last turn to play.
Conclusion: Time to Take the Wheel!
We've just torn down society's biggest myths: that feelings should steer your life and that happiness is the endgame.
Break Free: Ditch the "Feeling Ready" trap. The "right" moment is a myth. The time is now!
Nature's Game: Spoiler—nature doesn't care about your happiness. It wants you alive and reproducing.
True Contentment: Stop looking for happiness around the corner. It's already within you.
Your Move: Armed with these insights, you're set to chase your dreams. No more waiting. No more excuses.
Spread the Word:
Got a friend stuck in the overthinking loop? Share this with them. Let's break the cycle together!
🏁 Pit Stop Discoveries: Fuel Up on Wisdom and Insight! 🏁
Rev those engines, fellow travelers! It's time for a pit stop filled with discoveries that'll supercharge your mind and soul. Grab your favorite beverage, buckle up, and let's dive into this week's gems:
🎥 Skyrocketing Success with Riza's Mindset: This channel is a goldmine! Riza's cinematography and storytelling skills are top-notch. Her life-changing mindset? "Say Yes now, Figure it out later." With a subscriber count that shot from 10k to a staggering 270k in just a few months, she's living proof! Watch the video and get inspired!
🗨️ Unlocking the Power of Communication with Chris Do & Vinh Giang: These two are masters of the spoken word. Their discussion is not just entertaining but packed with actionable insights. Tune in and elevate your communication game!
🧠 From Novice to Expert with Sahil Bloom: This tweet dives into Matthew Broadwell's 4 Stages of Competence model. The key? Unconscious mastery. Learn how to level up your skills effortlessly!
📚 Forgetful? Think Again with Dr. Elizabeth Filips: Maybe you're not forgetful; you're just memorizing things the wrong way! Join Dr. Filips and never forget again!
🎨 Boost Your Creativity with Madni Aghadi's Canva Tips: This tweet reveals 10 mind-blowing Canva AI features that will skyrocket your productivity. Discover them now!
🌍 Climate Therapy: A Booming Business?: Ryan and Danny delve into the rise of climate therapists cashing in on Gen-Z's eco-anxiety. Watch and decide if it's a cause for concern or a cash grab!
That's the fuel for this pit stop, my friends! Keep rocking the road to success, and don't hesitate to share your thoughts on these discoveries. Until next time, keep your engines roaring and your minds expanding! 🚗💨
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